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Home Invasion — Distance Is Your Friend

February 14, 2019 by David Kenik 9 Comments

Anyway you look at it, someone entering your house in the middle of the night is a home invasion… Sneaking around the outside of a house at 3 a.m., the criminal sees and hears no signs that his chosen victims are awake. With a padded covering, he uses his elbow to break a basement window. Slipping inside, he makes his way up the stairs, stopping to pick up a small piece of 2×4 along the way. Hearing the glass break and noise downstairs, you gather your family to the master bedroom. Hiding behind concealment, a family member calls 911, while you get your weapon. Now what?

Man standing with his hands over his head after attempting a Home Invasion
Hands must be high above the head, not near the shoulders to prohibit access to a potential hidden weapon.

The criminal crosses the hallway toward your bedroom, and you realize that he is heading right for you and your family. You instantly blind him with your flashlight and he obeys your order, “Don’t move. Drop the Weapon!”

You have stopped the potential crime and saved your family and yourself from the harm intended by the criminal—so far. Your subsequent actions will determine how safe you all remain.

If you had fatally shot the criminal, there would be no worry of impending violence, and your area of concern would shift to the legal ramifications of the shooting. However, tonight, he’s alive, scared, angry, and still very much a threat. Put yourself in the shoes of the now-detained criminal. He has just been caught ‘breaking and entering,’ and who knows what other charges could apply.

He had a weapon and was expecting to find sleeping victims. If someone breaks into a home knowing that there are people inside, you have to assume there would be no hesitation to commit acts of violence. Sum it up and you have a violent criminal, facing jail time, who is backed into a corner and looking for any way to escape at any cost—a very dangerous predicament for the good guy.

At this point, your job is to protect your family by creating and maintaining situational dominance over the criminal until the police arrive. While one article can’t cover every possible contingency, this plan will outline an effective and accepted procedure for handling a single attacker. If you face multiple criminals, the approach is the same.

Man with a knife taped to his back
Note the weapon taped to his back.

Start with the ones that pose the greatest threat and keep them together, so you can keep your eyes in the same place. If the criminal does not speak English, or possibly pretends not to speak English, you will have to use exaggerated body movements to communicate. Keep your gun hand steady and be careful to keep the gun pointed at the criminal at all times so as to not give him an opportunity to attack.

The first thing you have to remember is that while this article offers a good procedure, everything does not always go according to plan. The bad guy has his own ideas of how events should unfold, and may not be cooperative. He may lull you into a sense of control and strike when he thinks that you’re not prepared or alert. He may simply refuse to obey you, or he may attack. The bad guy may also pretend to be submissive or cooperative, hoping you’ll drop your guard. Always stay alert and be ready for the unexpected.

Now, let’s get back to where we left off: your tactical flashlight blinds the criminal, and you are holding him at gunpoint. His weapon has been dropped and he is awaiting your instructions. Keep your family at a safe distance so you can focus your full attention on the threat at hand.

To maintain dominance, keep your flashlight in his eyes to keep him blinded.

Keep the room lights off; less ambient light will make it harder for him to identify objects or other people in the room. If your flashlight starts to dim due to weakening batteries, you will be forced to turn on the room lights. (This is a great reason to change your flashlight’s batteries regularly, even if you have not used it.)

Man on his knees with his hands over his head
Command the perpetrator to get on his knees to limit his movements.

Before turning on the room lights, you need to gain further situational dominance by putting the attacker in a physical position that will be the most difficult from which to attack.

Distance is your friend. There is no tactical advantage by being close, only danger. If attacked, you can shoot him just as easily at 20 feet as 5 feet. Up close, he has more advantages than you might realize.

At close range, he may be able to disarm you faster than you can pull the trigger. While that might sound hard to fathom, it has been proven true time after time. Action beats reaction. If a move is made to disarm you at close range, you must first perceive the movement, realize that it is an attempt to take your weapon, decide what your reaction will be, and only then fend off the gun grab. The longest part of that process is the perception of the movement and the determination of the threat. The attacker will be able to take the gun from your hands before your mind even perceives the danger.

Start by informing him in a very loud, deep, commanding voice: “If you make any fast movements, I will assume that you are going to attack me and I will shoot!” The next order is “Raise your hands high above your head!” Again, all of your commands need to be in a loud, deep (if possible), commanding voice. If this isn’t your everyday voice, this is another thing you should practice if you want to have it available when you need it.

If he starts to move his hands anywhere except above his head, especially to the back of his head or behind his back, order him again to move them above his head. Continued motion in a direction other than ordered is a sure sign that he is going for a hidden weapon.

If his weapon or anything else that can be used as a weapon is near his feet, order him to “Slowly, kick your weapon (or whatever object is close) to your left (or right) side!” Have it kicked in a direction that will be far from his reach but also not near you. You don’t want to pick the weapon up, as it diverts your attention from the criminal, ties up one hand, and may disturb the criminal’s fingerprints or other forensic evidence. Also, bending over will eliminate your position of dominance and give the criminal a perfect opportunity to attack.

You don’t want it at your feet; because you don’t want to trip over it, nor do you want to be looking down to avoid tripping over it when you move. Alternatively, you may order him to “Back away from the weapon!” (and away from you and your family).

Once his hands are in the proper position, the next order should be “Slowly, get on your knees!” Order him to then walk on his knees with his hands high above his head to a place that is large enough for him to lie down and that does not block you from reaching your family, the telephone and the door, and is also not near any potential weapons. From this point on, the criminal should never be allowed to stand again. If you need to move him again for any reason, he should do so on his knees or in a stomach crawl.

The final position has the assailant face down, looking away from you, arms spread with palms upward, and feet crossed.
The final position has the assailant face down, looking away from you, arms spread with palms upward, and feet crossed.

Get him on the floor by ordering him to “Slowly, lie down on the floor.” The final position changes are designed to greatly slow down his ability to get up and attack: “Spread your arms out to your sides, and face the palms of your hands up!” When completed, the next order should be: “Turn your head away from me, and place your face flat on the floor.”

The final order: “Cross your legs at the ankles!”

It is now time to remind him not to move: “If you make any fast movements, I will assume that you are going to attack me, and I will shoot you!”

If you have to divert your eyes or move to get the phone, have him crawl on his belly in a direction that lets you watch him constantly. Whatever you have to do, never lower your guard or your weapon, and keep your distance. Never try to cuff or tie up the suspect because that would open you to being disarmed or attacked. Remember, distance is your friend.

It is best to have a family member stay on the phone with the police throughout the entire incident to keep them apprised. If the police are still on the line, inform them of the fact that you are now holding the bad guy on the floor at gunpoint. If the call was disconnected, call the police again and tell them your current situation. It is important for the police to get an update, so they know the good guy is the person who is holding the gun. If there was not time to make a call to the police previously, do so now, while the criminal is in the most awkward physical position possible.

Any time that you call 911, give your address right away, and give it again to be sure they have it. Not all 911 systems display the address automatically. It is best to give the address first because if you get cut off for any reason, the police will at least know where you are and that you are in danger.

Next, give them your name and tell them that you are at home, holding at gunpoint a criminal who just broke into your home. At this time repeat the warning to the criminal: “If you make any fast movements, I will assume that you are going to attack me, and I will shoot you.” Do this again while on the phone with the police in order to get your warning recorded by the police’s phone recording system. If you have to shoot to defend yourself, the tape could go a long way in your defense.

man's feet crossed while laying face down
Feet should be crossed to make getting up more difficult.

Describe yourself to the police, including what you are wearing. Describe the criminal and what he is wearing. Be simple, be specific, and make a special effort to speak slowly and clearly. Remember, you will be under tremendous stress and may mumble, slur, or speak so quickly that the police could have trouble understanding. Tell them where you are in the house, and how to get there from the main door.

If a mature member of your family can meet the police at the door without having to walk near the criminal, have that person open the door for the officer(s) and give them a description of what is happening. The family member needs to inform the officer who you are and what you look like, so there is no mistake as to who the criminal is.

If you are alone or unable to open the door safely, tell the 911 operator that you “give permission for the officers to break the door in order to enter,” because you do not want to take your eyes off the criminal—even for a second.

Once the police are within earshot, advise them that you are the homeowner and the person on the floor broke into your home—with a weapon, if that is the case. Once the police arrive, they are in charge and you must follow the officers’ orders exactly and immediately, especially if they tell you to drop the gun. Picture the situation from their perspective: They come into a home and find someone on the floor at gunpoint. Who looks like the one who is threatening the life of another? Ensure the police know who the good guy is.

A caged animal is the most dangerous kind. The criminal knows he’s going to jail and may feel he has nothing to lose. You may have disarmed the attacker, but that does not render him harmless. These procedures will help you maintain control until the police arrive.

The author detailed how to handle a Home Invasion (intruder, burglar) in this article. What would you have done differently or in addition to the author’s instructions? Share your answer in the comment section.

David Kenik is the owner of Armed Response, author of the book, Armed Response, and co-author of the Armed Response Video Training Series. www.armedresponsetraining.com


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  1. wr says

    February 14, 2019 at 5:57 pm

    I might add that this is good procedure for police.

    For civilians, maybe.

    If the assailant is armed it is time to fire without question.

    Also be prepared for this scenario

    The fellow looks at you and says The Hell with this and walks away. Even if he is armed and he turns his back on you and leaves the threat is over and you cannot legally fire. You may attempt to detain him with verbal comments but he may simply turn and walk out the way he came in. The important thing is that he sees shoot in your eyes and hears it in your voice. If he doesn’t doesn’t is going to work.

    A lot goes on when these things occur for real.

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  2. wr says

    February 14, 2019 at 6:01 pm

    There is another scenario that happens often. The perpetrator says The Hell With This and turns and walks or runs away the way he came. You have to let him go he is no longer a threat.
    This advice seems good for police, not so good for civilians not used to detaining individuals. The only sane thing to do is to maintain cover and cover the threat.

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    • JD says

      February 17, 2019 at 1:45 pm

      It’s also good to have a taser at home. You can attach the taser to your shotgun (duct tape, ha ha) and use whichever suits rhe occasion. If the thief is armed, use shotgun; if unarmed, use taser and continue with phone communication. It all depends on distance to intruder, his (or her) aggressiveness, etc. Stay aware and ready for more action, though. Things never happen as foreseen.

      Reply
  3. barely tan gerbil says

    February 16, 2019 at 11:24 pm

    Why spend so much effort, after the fact?

    Reinforced window grate placed over that basement window, for starters (with fire escape gate, for you). Make it harder for outsiders to gain entry in the first place.

    Second, having a large, loyal, protective family dog living indoors with you and your family year-round helps tremendously. Plus they’re lots of fun and make great buddies.

    Third, anyone who has entered my home, traditionally identified as “armed” or not, has already established themselves as a threat to my life. They are either delusional, on drugs, mentally unstable, all of the above (and therefore unlikely to comply with any orders I might bark at them, no matter how deep and manly I might manage to make my female voice sound), and so they have have placed their life in danger by placing mine in danger, you see? I can’t help but ask why has no one identified in this article that *everything is a weapon* ? Bare fists. Feet. That hat he’s wearing, thrown in my face, or at my hands. A table lamp. His shoe! EVERYTHING IS A WEAPON. Why dance around that?

    Given the possibility the hostile may not respond to pain, my safest and smartest option is to mechanically disable the intruder. Hopefully before he can do it to me. I am not pointing my gun at anyone in order to intimidate him; for all I know, he may not intimidate! Leaving me back with safest option #1, a swift mechanical take down. Another point I feel is worth mentioning here, is that contrary to the popular media mantra, police are not “first responders”. The home occupant is the first responder. My advice is be ready to pull those triggers, multiple times. Why? Because as long as a hostile is capable of moving, he is potentially capable of killing and maiming. No reasonable person would expect anyone else to obligate themselves to taking such a risk.

    Even if, as wr pointed out earlier, a hostile were to supposedly turn away from me, perhaps to leave – well now, that is a dangerous assumption, isn’t it? How would I know for certain that is what his intentions are? For all I know, he’s looking for his buddies, or a weapon, to re-engage and overpower me.

    I respect the simple and direct logic of an old camping poster showing the figure of a large charging grizzly bear, with big numbered circles placed over the bear’s different body parts, the numbered circles were placed in key positions on the bear, outlining strategic shot placement, for effectively stopping the grizzly bear – by rendering him physically incapable of any continued advancement (Note: the charging bear’s bobbing up and down head was not inside Circle Number 1, since a bobbing up and down head presents a smaller, moving target with much less chance of a successful shot). I seem to recall a pelvic or spine shot was suggested as the initial target, followed with other successive shot placements, each shot preventing further forward motion.

    A home occupant must be willing to perform the same swift, unhesitating mechanical take down of home intruders to eliminate deadly danger. Size, race, gender, should not affect one’s threat assessment, this person who has entered your home poses a grave danger to you, regardless of those things.

    It’s your life or his, and either he chose to make it so or he is out of his mind, in either case he poses grave imminent danger to you, your family, and others. Be willing to pull the trigger until you need your reload (which ideally would be another loaded firearm).

    Remember, this person has already entered your home, with the understanding that he may encounter you. HE DOES NOT FEAR YOU. HE MAY NOT FEEL PAIN. HE MAY EVEN HAVE BROUGHT HIS BUDDIES. HE MAY HAVE COME SPECIFICALLY IN ORDER TO PERFORM ACTS OF VIOLENCE. Your options are very limited, so I suggest maximizing your chances of survival and skip the giving-orders scenario. You are in fear for your life! Issuing orders indicates you are calm and in control of the intruder’s movements. But are you? Even if he does turn his back to you, you don’t know what he’s doing, or planning to do. He may be planning on eliminating witnesses to his crime. He may be going for a weapon of opportunity.

    With all due respect, covering the threat is *not* the only sane thing to do. I could conceivably swoon from stress, my surging adrenaline might cause me to weaken and lose my grip or my focus . . so again, covering the threat while waiting for more good guys to show up, in my opinion, is NOT “the only sane thing to do.” Action beats reaction.
    So act while you can!

    Sane actions do also include the options I’ve outlined above. I would add another: clearing the house of any other potential threats, room by room, before calling police. That way you can put your own weapons down by the time they arrive and everyone is safer from any posdible case of mistaken identity : ) Be sure to tell officers you were in fear for your life, that is, if you talk to the police. You’ll probably br pretty shook up and unable to cope with a lot of talking. Like I said, you might even swoon or get dizzy, you might need some supportive medical intervention. In all likelihood, your neighbors will have called them by then, so be very, very quick to clear the rest of the house and place your weapons down by the time the police arrive. You do not want to be seen as a prowler by police when you are clearing your home.
    You have less than 30 seconds to effectively deal with a single intruder, less than 3 minutes to clear and secure the rest of your home before law enforcement officers arrive.

    Just some thoughts.

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    • wr says

      February 17, 2019 at 3:35 pm

      Absolutely excellent reply and one of the best I have seen.

      WR

      Reply
      • barely tan gerbil says

        February 17, 2019 at 3:50 pm

        WR, coming from you I take that as a high complement. Thanks!

        -btg

        Reply
  4. barely tan gerbil says

    February 17, 2019 at 3:57 pm

    WR, coming from you I take that as a high complement. Thanks!

    -btg

    Reply
  5. Randy says

    February 21, 2019 at 10:21 pm

    Great article!

    Reply
  6. Shear'Ree says

    February 27, 2019 at 8:30 am

    Don’t take any chances… Immediately shoot the intruder… Threat is over.

    Reply

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