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Ready for Self-Defense or Fight Ready?

March 25, 2018 by Bob Campbell 2 Comments

When training, you cannot judge an individual based on the skills he has been taught nor can you judge a system by one student. Students can learn additional systems to add to their arsenal, but few who train are learning to fight, most train for self-defense only.

man defending a gun from an attacker
If you draw too soon, or too close, the fight turns into a fight for the gun.

When I attend martial arts or boxing matches, I like to see a participant making continual use of angles and advancing just as would be done in a ‘real fight.’ Moving forward is important. It shows a posture that is more than total defense. You cannot win a fight defensively.

Now wait… I am defending myself. That is pretty simple, right? Maybe.

A fight by my definition is a combat between two individuals intent on achieving a goal. This goal is to prevail and survive on one side. The opposition’s goal (in our context here) is to defeat, rob, rape or even kill. This is the assumption we usually make although there are many nuances to a fight.

Unlike military action, the combatants have no idea of the capability of the other individual. One may be a martial artist; the other may have impressive street credentials. One may have limiting physical factors, the other may be in his prime—the usual case is a mix of every type of physique.

Man running up a flight of stairs
Do you work out every day? Every other day? You may be helpless when the moment comes if you are out of shape—there is no excuse.

It is difficult to train for a fight with a sparring partner. Having trained in the same system you each move in a similar fashion and the action is somewhat set, whether you realize it or not. That is good for a match, but not so good against a strong arm robber.

In most fights, unless the adversary is known to you, neither his capability or true motives are obvious. It may be robbery and he may run at the first blow. He may be a psychopath intent on causing suffering and pain and will not stop until the breath is gone from his body.

The level of commitment in a fight differs, and the decent individuals among us, put defenders at a disadvantage mentally. The adversary has made the commitment to assault you. He is taking a chance at being jailed. He may have been jailed before. He may have been shot, stabbed, or beat down before. He doesn’t want to go to jail, but some do not care.

Man shadow boxing
Shadow boxing is a great way to train solo. You cannot beat the shadow.

Giving the system a few months of your life is par for the course. The criminal justice system is, for the most part, made up of attorneys building up favors with the other and he understands that. Some fear of punishment may cause him to stop short of murder, but if that is his only or most likely avenue of escape he will take it.

As for the defender in the back of their mind they consider consequence. Have I provoked this? Do I have a part in this battle? Is this mutual combat or a true defensive situation? Will I face civil or legal penalties? I found this true in over 20 years of police work.

There are problems with action and inaction alike. This mindset results in hesitation when you must defend yourself. Those who have made critical mistakes, acted from fear or some other misguided emotion, make it hard on those who study these matters and must make the right decision in a split second. We fear being perceived as wrong, and we fear consequences even for a correct action.

Wanted posters with a book by Gichin Funakoshi
A clash is often a meeting of complete opposites. Those that have discipline have the advantage.

Fights are like car wrecks. They happen, and they are over quickly. The fights in the movies that last several minutes are like choreographed ring matches. Sometimes the stuntman gets hurt. A roundhouse kick to the face isn’t something you get up from; you may be going to the hospital for surgery.

Even the trained student’s endurance will be sapped in a few minutes of all out fighting. The person who relies upon skills they cannot demonstrate is delusional. The person who has trained hard in force-on-force training will be prepared for a fight. The individual with experience will be better prepared. You have to train hard and this means stress and pain. Hitting the bag is a start, but it is only an exercise—not a drill. You have to get into a fight for a real drill.

As for the goal, that is simple. Stop the assault. Stop the assault and do it within the law. The courts have held that a slight blow doesn’t equal a beat down. You must understand the continuum of force and respect it. It is easier to go to the top tier—lethal force—if the assailant is attacking with a knife or gun. The other levels require more thought.

Bob and Jerry Campbell at the Carolina Boxing Hall of Fame
The author with his Uncle, as Jerry Campbell was inducted in the Carolina Boxing Hall of Fame. They know a little about the subject.

You do not fire at an assailant that verbally threatens you or throws a drink at you. Likewise, you do you stab someone for pushing you unless you wish to spend a few years at the crossed bar motel with a roommate named Studs McDick.

The ‘I was in fear for my life’ defense is pretty feeble if the adversary wasn’t using deadly force. There are many defensive moves that must be learned, and well thought out to be effective. However, in the end, if the attacker isn’t dealt effective punishment, you cannot stop the attack. This is called the finisher.

The defensive blows are used to parry his attack. After all, you are the defender. In a fistfight, you will be struck. In a knife fight, you will be cut. In a gunfight, there is a high probability you will be shot. Your mindset must be such that you do not stay in the defensive mindset but continue to strike back at the person of unknown motive that is attacking you.

Do you train for self-defense or a fight for your life? Is there a difference? Share your answers or training plans in the comment section.


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  1. Daniel Taylor says

    March 31, 2018 at 7:15 am

    This discussion needs a substantive follow-up, to expound upon the implications. It’s well known that the best defense is a good offense; and, an all-out fight would top defensive posturing. But, it would seem that the author promotes a measured defense with consideration of legalities; which could get you killed. When being assaulted, I would do what I have to do and deal with the consequences as they come. For an older person, of slight build and with permanent injuries; an assault by some hulking, young bully warrants an all-out response.

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  2. All en Justice says

    April 1, 2018 at 6:20 pm

    I have personally been attacked at work, on the street, in my car, and while waiting for someone uptown. I escalate the encounter as quickly as I can once the first step is taken by the assailant. If they have a gun I shoot them. If they pull a knife I severely lacerate there artery. If they attempt to or strike me I break a limb, strike out an eye, or crush the throat. Talk is cheap, but, if I am threatened verbally I take action before the threat can be carried out. Better to litigate alive than to speculate dead or as a vegetable do to severe beatings. No quarter! No warnings, just finish it quick and gain the advantage first. The American way!

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